Humans are connected with one another for their needs and desires. To hold on to a relation for a longer time, there has to be a profound connection than just superficial wants. One can become a stranger in no time, driven by circumstances. Likewise, sometimes unknown connections could light a spark to life through magical ways.
People could be together but remain unconnected. When someone likes you, it’s mostly because you fulfil their desires, not because they like you for who you are. This relation can fall apart soon as it comes across as an obnoxious personality. Self indulgence could hinder the unlimited capacity of humans to be the most compassionate beings ever. What’s the fun being in such a relation where one person enjoys all the perks? A beautiful relation is something which comes without terms and conditions, be it at work or personal life. There has to be more joy in giving than just being a passive beneficiary of one’s kindness. This rare but exceptional quality could form the base for umpteen wonders that elevate humanity at large. Being human should be an enough reason to practice such unbiased connect that could turn any encounter an acquaintance when not bound by expectations and judgement.
There is a sense of affinity over a common problem. It could bring together like minded people to lessen the common suffering. But it shouldn’t take such harsh path to evolve a quality as simple as mere existence of humanity. What makes it harder to look beyond one’s advantage when it comes to day to day encounters..? There is a sophisticated way of doing it through ‘family’ however when it happens otherwise things break down.
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